November 21, 2025

NaBloPoMo - Day 21

One of the things on my list of little things that annoy me from yesterday's post was people stopping by unannounced. It reminded me of a funny video clip I saw of comedian Sebastian Maniscalco talking about the difference between the doorbell ringing 20 years ago compared to today. It's so true, although I think what he talks about was more like 40 or more years ago instead of 20. Either way, I think it's funny - enjoy. :)

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  1. This was hilarious and SO true. I don't know anyone that just drops by now, but it was very common 30-40 years ago. If someone does ring the doorbell it's probably someone selling things and I don't open the door.

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    1. Exactly! I never open the door anymore unless I'm expecting someone. I do have good memories of people just stopping by when I was younger, and my mother did always have something special ready and waiting that was just for company, lol.

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  2. Lot of changes in 20 years for sure.We didn't used to let everyone know when we going to stop by. Sometimes, we'd just go for a ride and stop to visit relatives. Back then most women were home and didn't go to work. I'll say one thing, no one ever stopped by when the house was clean.

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    1. Everyone did it all the time back in those days. I also remember neighbors just tapping on the door and then opening it to give a little yoo-hoo instead of waiting for someone to come to the door. We were all much more social back then.

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  3. Have a great day! Love, ma

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  4. That was so funny! I'm sad that doesn't happen anymore. I'm still ok with drop in guests, but unfortunately, if the doorbell rings it's usually someone trying to sell something!

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    1. I agree, it's sad. I usually don't even bother to go to the door to check anymore.

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  5. That was funny! Times have definitely changed. We used to visit with each other way more than we do these days.

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    1. I know, it's sad. People seem much less social overall than they used to, and I suppose life has just gotten busier than ever too.

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  6. Hilarious! He's not wrong. Got a good laugh from Sanka!

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  7. Thanks so much for the laughs, Martha. This guy is hilarious! Blessings!

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  8. We used to have Sara Lee cakes! (not always for company though) When my doorbell rings, it's often a salesperson for windows, solar panels or internet provider.

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    1. My mom always kept those frozen Pepperidge Farm cakes on hand for company. It's almost never anyone you want to see at the door anymore.

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  9. We rarely get a drop by visit from just one of our neighbors. I guess we see them out just enough in good weather, we catch up a bit and we are all done.

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    1. I remember the days when neighbors would basically just tap on the door and then let themselves in. Times sure have changed. I don't even know most of my neighbors now.

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  10. I’ve seen that before and it is SO true! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to hide over the years. Now we have security cameras and I can just look at my phone! I have 2 Do NOT Knock signs and nobody pays attention to them.🙄

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    1. It really is true. I can even remember shushing my kids when someone would knock, lol, that's why I said it was more like 40 years ago. I can't believe people still knock at your door with signs up. I think that would make me mad enough to go to the door just to ask if they can read and to not so nicely tell them to go away!

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  11. This is hilarious 😂 I loved it. So true.

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    1. I'm so glad you enjoyed it Linda. It's both funny and true!

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  12. :-))) When my doorbell rings, it's often the postman who wants to leave the neighbours' Amazon packages by me...

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    1. It's never anyone enjoyable these days.

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  13. He certainly knows how to tell a story. That was fun.

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  14. Right? Please call before coming over.

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  15. Well, 20 years ago it was the '80s... Wait. No? That was 40 years ago? The F you say?

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  16. That was funny! Our cats get scared when the doorbell rings so I dismantled it.

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    1. My kitties always did too. I always thought they learned the run and hide from us, lol! ;)

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  17. That was funny!

    All the best Jan

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    1. I thought so too, glad you enjoyed. :)

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  18. That was funny! I don't have a doorbell but, people will knock on the door. I'm a bit cautious now than I used to be, but, I still open the door to see who it is.

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    1. It's definitely different these days either way, don't you think?

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    1. It really is! I'm glad you enjoyed it. :)

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  20. For me the time frame would have been 60 years ago. Watching this clip, I was laughing so hard. What he describes is how it was in my Italian family. I'm also stealing this for my blog post next Saturday.

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    1. Steal away! Interesting to know you are from an Italian family, I am as well, so the exact way he told it really resonated with me, too!

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  21. I saw this clip back in the day and it was funny (I can't view it from where I am readig right now but I think it's the same one). My gram would have cake out on the table for drop ins. It was common. They did it all the time. So funny now. And it's true!

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    1. It probably is the same one, it's the one about the cake on the table, lol! My grandmother and even my mother did the same thing, and company really did just drop my all the time. It's a totally different world now.

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    2. Yes, so different. But back then, they didn't have text to be in touch each day either. Funny how life changes.

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    3. True, but we did still have phones. I think life just got way too busy over the years and people just got more and more disconnected over time.

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  22. The way he nails the old-school doorbell visits so true, people really had manners back then.

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    1. Those really were the good old days.

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  23. That was such fun, thank you for posting it!

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  24. It's hilarious and oh so true. When I was a kid, the neighbors all came and went without calling in advance. In today's world a lot of people don't even know their neighbors!

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    1. I know! I definitely don't know most of mine anymore. It's pretty sad when you think about it.

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